If you make your own candle, wait until Friday to prepare the wax. Then add the three hairs to the soft wax as you mold the candle with your hands. However, if you bought the candle already made, just soften the wax a little with a lighter and then embedded the hairs in it.

On a Friday night with a waxing moon, take the candle into your hands and think hard on the relationship you desired to have with your loved one. See yourself with this person in the present, doing all you desire to do.

Now anoint the candle with olive oil, using sensuous, caressing motion, as you were attending your lover. Never stop imagining how it is when you are together.

Finally, light the candle and pray that your lover will come to you. Write your lover's name three times on a plain piece of paper, and burn it in the flaming wick. While the paper burns, chant the name of your lover out loud three times. Blow out the candle. Now be patient and wait for your lover to respond.