Use this spell to affect someone who desires you, yet is shy in expressing their feelings. Start by melting some red candle wax and molding it in the shape of a phallus if you are female, or a womb if you are male. Once the wax has dried, sensuously anoint the candle with olive oil, as if you were attending your lover, thinking hard on the intimacy you desire as you do so. Light the candle. Now, write your lover's name three times on a piece of white paper, and burn it in the flaming wick, praying that your lover will come to you. While the paper burns, recite your lover's name out loud three times, then blow out the candle. Try to wait patiently for your lover to respond to your magic.